Of course there is great debate about whether this activity is safe and ‘normal’ to quote from one forum thread I found about it: ‘My girlfriend was making out with me when she flipped me over and started giving me a rim job. Is it normal?’ Some of the replies included; ‘Lucky you!’ ‘I wish mine would do that,’ and ‘the one thing you have in common with women in your genital area is your poop hole – its about as sensitive as your foreskin (which is why it feels so good) and if you don’t like it then fine, but don’t give your life over to your hang ups, just get a little loving on your chocolate starfish.’ (Chocolate starfish?!).

So you get the picture: it’s not to everyone’s taste (which reminds me, wash first!) but it is a pleasurable thing to have done to you and it is generally considered a reasonably safe sex practice. While it may be theoretically possible to get HIV from a rim job, most experts believe this is safe sex in terms of HIV and there have been no cases reported of HIV transmission through oral-anal sex. Oral-anal sex can transmit other diseases including hepatitis A. All of these illnesses are transmitted via contaminated fecal matter. You can use a cut-up condom, household plastic wrap or a dental dam for rimming to lessen your risks. Your best bet, though, is to have both partners wash thoroughly with soap and warm water both before and after sex. Getting vaccinated for hepatitis A and B and regular STD checkups are another good way to stay healthy. (Advice from San Francisco City Clinic www.dph.sf.ca.us)

That’s all very well for the technical and medical information, you may say, but what if you simply want to watch some rimming porn, some gay ass licking? In that case I’ve found the prefect site for you: myfirstrimjob.com. I have recently been inside the members’ area here so I can give you first hand info about what to find when you become a member. The movies that they have are exclusive and hot. They always feature sexy younger guys in their twenties who have a kind of East European feel to them. The cocks are hard and juicy and the bodies usually smooth and toned – but these boys aren’t muscle men. The videos play as Windows Medial Files and you can download them: good quality, good length, good performances and more than average time is spent on the rim job.

If it is your first time to give or receive a rim job you’ll certainly pick up some tips from watching these movies. There are galleries with each full length video too and you can also access bonus sites when you join. When I was there they had over 20 exclusive, full length movies but it was a little while ago so there are probably more by now. If you’re not sure there is a great offer of three days trial membership for only $1.00 which will let you see what’s going on, there is also a five day trial for $6.95 and a full month’s membership is only $29.97.

So, whether you are curious to see how it’s done or whether you have a fetish for it and haven’t seen the site yet, My First Rim Job is a great place to go and view hot oral-anal action. Trust the tour as what you see is what you get.